To try and explain your experience with those specific engines and this one
...engines detuned to be most efficient for MPG even at full throttle are that way. (Unless you flog them like a dying horse, which I do. Killed many a gutless engine as a kid)
Engines tuned to be most efficient at making power, especially at full throttle, maybe glad throttle is almost full throttle - MPG not a priority - are that way.
Few engines are really this extreme, it's a scale. On that scale Alfa's 300ps (rounding) 2.0 4 cyl is closer to power efficiency then MPG efficiency than a 200ps or 150ps VW 2.0 So, by the way, is the VW 2.0 engine that makes 300hp, however if Alfa is an 8 VW is a 7 on that scale. Regardless neither will get the gas miledge the lower powered motors will for most drivers. However for some drivers, the higher power cars actually do better for mpg. (People like me who, when they drive a car with an 8 sec 0-60, they make that car do 0-60 in 8 seconds everytime they accelerate. No engine gets good gas mileage constantly floored. Except the FIAT 500, I averaged 20mpg in that which I was happy with)
As far as if the Stelvio had a DSG...I'de break it. 6 months, did last time. It wasn't a defect. It did feel great till it broke.
What doesn't work as well for you...works better for me is my point.
Also that constantly expecting one car to be like another car is what leads to lack of variety because the people who run the companies actually do listen to that. (Because it's cheaper to make everything the same then engineer real variation)
Tiguan's a great car, Stelvio's a great car. Best part about both is they are nothing like each other.
Wanna know something I find hilarious? The 2018 and 2019 with them being "unrefined" compared to the facelifted models, the transmission in my 2018 reminds me of everything I enjoyed most about the DSG, before it broke. It feels tactile and direct when shifting especially at full throttle, even around town easy...you know it's shifts positive and firm. Snappy even.
But...people complained they could really feel the shifts, it wasn't smooth like such and such whatever........now it isn't like that.
The next Stelvio will be nothing like this one and much of the difference will be to make it more like every other car on the road. Sorry if I get overly defensive, but we should be enjoying the variety we have while we have it because I don't think what is coming will be anything like it's promised to be. Other then fast in a straight line, in an arguably dangerous way. Which isn't going to last as far as availability.
....VW themselves has become watered down generic "car".....once one of the most unique of all mainstream manufacturers, now generic. We have to stop expecting apples to be like oranges, because we like apples best. What we are ending up with are apnges and orples, and both are lame since they are basically the same thing and neither is what they are supposed to be.